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Conte-me 5- Vizinha FOFOQUEIRA ?

Qual sua relação com seus vizinhos? Conforme explica Bert Hellinger, em constelação sistêmica, o nosso espaço físico, o lugar onde moramos, onde trabalhamos, e uma extensão de quem somos, do nosso direito de estarmos aqui.
Ao nos ameaçarem neste espaço (ou acreditarmos que assim estão), sentimos ameaçado o nosso direito de estar, permanecer, de ser.
Lembre-se de uma vizinha que teve, ou ainda tem, que e fofoqueira, e que limita sua atuação de tanto que fala da vida alheia. Questione-se agora qual sua disposição com esta situação? Nossa casa e nossa base de sustentação, e nela que esta nossa família, portanto, quando a casa esta vulnerável, as relações desenvolvidas nessa dinâmica, neste espaço, passam a ficar instáveis.
Voltemos a sua disposição com a vizinha, por que ela esta com a chave de sua casa, comandando o movimento dos moradores? O que te impede pegar a chave de volta e fechar a porta?
Vizinho e visita, não e chefe da casa e nem da família, reassuma este papel com serenidade, sabendo que provavelmente em algum momento também tentamos assumir as rédeas de um lar que não era o nosso.
E caso sua vizinha tenha pego a chave porque percebeu que você precisava de aprovação do modo que constituía sua família, sua base, a agradeça por ter participado ate onde foi preciso, mas que agora esta pronta para seguir com AUTONOMIA. 
Sinta-se pronta, e assim estará! Reprograme-se

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