Por que a felicidade dá medo?

Há uma certa crença- social, inclusive- de que a felicidade poderá nos trazer SOLIDÃO, pois as pessoas que não atingiram o estado de felicidade sentiriam-se ultrajadas por aqueles que o atingiram, como um desrespeito à dor do infeliz.

Assim sendo, optamos em ter parte de uma felicidade, para pertencermos a alguma parte da sociedade.

E nessa história vivemos parte de quem somos e auxiliamos a construir uma família em partes, um grupo de amizade, uma sociedade de partes, ao invés de inteiros.

Há uma inversão subconsciente de valores, se estamos infelizes, temos companhia, se estamos com problemas, temos companhia, ao invés de acompanharmos aqueles que nutrem e nos mostram o caminho da felicidade, da SOLUÇÃO. (Não há felicidade no problema, e se acreditar nisso, poderá estar fazendo movimentos de projeção ).

O medo da felicidade pode vir da sensação de estar traindo aquele que sofre, e isso trazer culpa. Não caia nesta cilada, mesmo porque para dar a mão para levantar alguém precisamos estar do lado de fora do poço, caso contrário, poderemos afundar ao outro.

DIRETO AO PONTO.

Voltemos o olhar-e o nosso coração- para o que é INTEIRO, não somos partes, somos uma obra integrada. Não estimulemos ao outro se dividir ao concordar em ser uma parte de algo apenas porque alguém disse que o caminho será solitário. PODEMOS SER FELIZES E TERMOS COMPANHIA DE PESSOAS FELIZES. O Feliz nunca está só, ele está inteiro em si, e então tem o que oferecer ao outro para que também se complete. Tenha coragem de ser feliz! E já terá uma companhia que até hoje não sentido em sua vida, VOCÊ!

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