How is your mother?
Do you want to see who she really is?
Worked at the heart of the systemic constellation, the mother figure is the central axis of emotional reference to how we deal with our lives.
The way we designs our relationship with our mother is the same way we projects with people around.
Usually when one asks how the link between you and her is based, there is a moment of reflection on the way we were treated by her, especially in infancy, up to seven years of age.
There is a chance to remember a grudge a little more ostentatious than the one you would now consider ideal for that moment, and his may have caused a sense of guilt over the accused "mistake".
Go to that moment, if you can, and look like a mirror, as if she's been assaulting herself. Ask her, why are you attacking?
Listen to her outburst, and at this moment she will humanize herself, you can forgive her, free her from the cord of sorrow that unites them, and install a cordon of love and understanding.
Your belief system is strongly influenced in early years of life.
Mothers are human before are our wonder woman.