What are we looking for in love?
One word can define what we look for in the other for an affective relationship: COMPLETUDE.
We can say that seek affection, honesty, loyalty, howevwe, regardless of the characteristic, the movement is always directed towards the same purpose, completeness, CLOSURE.
Bud then we have a question: are we not complete?
I don't speak of completeness in the sense of the other giving me what I don't have, it is the exact opposite, it is the other allowing me to TRANSBIDE whats I have.
The human being was made to love and demonstrate this love. When we are not allowed to demonstrate what we have, we fell like do not use the full potential.
Let me overflow my love, and I will complete the other also allowing it to overflow. So one completes the other.
When we finish a relationship, we say that the old relationship did not work out because we did not fell like being our potentiality, we could not overflow.
The movement of completeness also holds for destructive relationship, we attract what we believe to be. If we are in destructive process, we will attract someone to completeness of this destruction.
THE END of relationship usually occurs because someone from this couple has changed the behavioral pattern(or both have changed). One has more things to overflow than the other,
As I said, we were made to love, and in loving the other, we overflow what we have. We complete it with what WE ARE IN THE MOMENT.
Decide what your ideal relationship will be like, ask the question:
Do I know what I want to complete?
Do I know what I want overflow?
We live in a physical, attractive reality, your relationship will be like your answers.
Always respecting the movement of the other, and yours!Gratitude!
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